” What is a normal child like? Does he just eat and grow and smile sweetly?  No that is not what he is like.  The normal child, if he has confidence in mother and father, pulls out all the stops. In the course of time, he tries out his power to disrupt, to...

John Bowlby

“We become attached to what is familiar, and sometimes we hold onto things that are safe and predictable, even if they are bad for us.”

Robert Stolorow

“When my traumatized states could not find a relational home, I became deadened, and my world became dulled.  When such a home became once again present, I came alive, and the vividness of my world returned.”

Bernard Brandchaft

“Everything we observe in ourselves and in others emerges from the interaction between what is observed and the eyes that are observing.”

Lewis Carroll

“If you limit your actions in life to things that nobody can possibly find fault with, you will not do much!”

Joni Mitchell

“But you know it’s hard to tell when you’re in the spell if it’s wrong or if it’s real, But you’re bound to lose if you let the blues get you scared to feel”